The San Francisco Bay Area is fortunate in having a rich diversity of model railroad clubs covering all of the major model railroading scales and gauges. Joining a model railroad club offers several benefits including:
Club membership also brings with it certain obligations such as supporting Open Houses, participation in the business of the club, and the willingness to compromise and accept club decisions (which might differ from what you might do on your model railroad). However that is a small price for the many benefits they can offer.